Conversation Ideas
Guys make the move in order to catch a girl’s attention and maybe ask her out on a date. But once the girl gives a thumbs-up and says yes on a dinner date on Friday, what’s next? If you think you’re always running out of interesting topics to talk about during a date, here are some worthy topics and relationship tips:
Mutual Interests
Girls love it when a guy talks about things that interest her but to keep the conversation going, things that you and the girl both love are always worth talking about. If it’s the first date, try to find out stuff about the girl’s hobbies or interests. A girl who’s interested enough should do the same thing and find out more about you. The key here is to know first what the other one likes and talk about these things.
Food
This is one topic that many find interesting. You don’t need to wow her with your expert knowledge on how to bake the perfect soufflé. Instead, find out more about her favorite food or restaurant and see if you can also think of your favorite dishes. Exchange views on your favorite type of food and who knows? Your date may find a Thai dinner next week simply irresistible.
Embarrassing Moments
Talking about embarrassing moments can be a good idea not on the first date but on the succeeding dates. Talking about these stuff can be overwhelming on the first date especially if it’s a blind date. Once you and your date are comfortable with each other, talking about funny yet embarrassing moments can help you get an idea about a girl’s sense of humor. Your date may also be learning more about you as you tell her about the time you fell down the stairs in front of everybody during 8th grade. But, avoid topics that are really gross or sex-related. Your date may not be that ready yet to hear about those topics.
Whether it’s the first date or not, stirring up an interesting conversation should not be that hard. Always keep in mind that both you and your date’s interests should be the highlights of the conversation.
Sources:
American Chronicle
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